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Computers and Toddlers: How to Make it Work

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Neither computers nor television are evil. But as with TV, there is a right - and a wrong - way to introduce the computer to your toddler. Key to helping your child get the most out of computers is limiting the amount of time you spend in front of the screen and making it an experience you share. See other tips collected from experts below.

Hold off until the child is at least 9 months to a year old

Children younger than 9 months don't have the physical skills to interact with the computer. Their vision isn't developed enough to clearly focus on the screen until they're about 6 months old. And most children also need to be able to sit up by themselves to enjoy staring at a program while you work the mouse. Sitting up without any support usually doesn't happen until around 6 to 8 months. Young babies also don't have the attention span necessary to follow what's happening on the screen.

Start when your child shows an interest

Computer use is not an activity worth forcing. Wait for your child to show some curiosity. Is she interested in your machine? Does she pound on the keyboard? Does she watch you when you're working or surfing? If she seems responsive - smiling, laughing, clapping - go for it. If not, let it go. And don't worry that she'll lose any ground as a computer whiz. A lesson or two in kindergarten, and she'll know how to work a mouse or rollerball with the best of them.

Make computer time shared time

Share the computer experience with your child as a friend, fellow audience member, and guide. That way, you'll be there to draw your child out, just as you do when reading a book. (So, what color is Elmo's fur? How come Daisy is feeling sad?) This helps a child build vocabulary and memory skills - and share some time with Mom or Dad. And, starting at age 2 or so, when your child starts asking the questions (Why is Peter Rabbit wearing a coat?) you'll be there to answer them, which is a crucial part of a child's coming to understand his world.

Choose programs designed for very young children

Many adult games and CD-ROMS are too fast, too loud, and too confusing for a young child's brain to absorb - and they can be frightening. It's best to stick with games developed for children under 3. And if you start out with Mario Brothers, there's no going back to Elmo and Big Bird.

Make fun and computer exposure your goal, not academic learning

Ideally, a tot under age 3 will view the computer as another toy at his disposal and not a task master. There's no point in drilling a 1-year-old on the alphabet, or addition and subtraction. Instead, go for software that reinforces reading and math readiness skills, which can include listening comprehension, cause-and-effect, opposites such as big and small, and color and shape recognition. Even then, you'll maintain your child's enthusiasm for learning and computers if skill-building is incidental to a good story, song, or game.

Limit your screen time

Several 30-second sessions are a good starting point for 1- to 2-year-olds, most of whom will lose interest if you push it further. By the time your child is 3 or 4, you can work up to as much as an hour a day (total) if your child wants to continue, but stop there. More than that will eat into the time available for other critical development tasks such as eating, sleeping, playing, dancing, and talking with adults and other children. Whenever you play on the computer with your child, watch for signs of fatigue - if he stops looking at the screen and starts fidgeting, getting sleepy, or crying, it's time to quit.

Select programs with big, easy-to-see images

One to three images per screen is a good guideline, especially for kids around 1. When the image gets more complicated - a street scene with lots of characters, for example - a young child just can't comprehend it. At this developmental stage, zany, complicated drawings are too chaotic for your child's developing brain. But as his visual skills build, you can use programs with more complicated pictures. By 3 your child may be ready for big scenes.

Choose programs with simple songs

From birth, babies enjoy songs and music with a steady rhythm, even a sing-song tone. The repetition of songs such as "The Farmer in the Dell," for example, help 1-year-olds establish patterns and start to anticipate what will come next. If you've got an 18-month-old, have fun with the sound of bells, whistles, or clocks - toddlers that age really respond to them. But pass on software and Web sites with frantic noises or loud rock music. The random rhythm is confusing and even startling to very young ears.

Save storylines until your child is at least 2

Programs with short stories can complement reading aloud to your child. You can slowly work up to longer stories to increase your child's listening comprehension and attention span. But save the fairy tales and involved adventure software for older children, starting somewhere around age 2. Younger children can't follow plots and might get frustrated.

Do your homework before you buy

Several reputable nonprofit organizations review software and CD-ROMs. In addition, you can often sample a program at your local daycare center or library (call to see whether they circulate software). Visit free Internet sites that offer material for preschoolers to see if your child likes interacting with the computer before you buy something. One to try: the Public Broadcasting System's kids Web site (

Be a smart computer shopper

If you're thinking of buying a new computer or upgrading an old one just for your child, consider waiting until he's around 5, when he'll be able to appreciate a faster modem or higher-resolution images. By that time, prices will surely come down and the technology will be much improved.

To get these answers, we talked to child development experts. Marian Diamond, a neuroscientist and professor at the University of California, Berkeley, and the author of Magic Trees of the Mind, and Stevanne Auerbach, author of Dr. Toy's Smart Play: How to Raise a Child With a High PQ.

This article has been adapted from original content written and provided by © BabyCenter, L.L.C. 2005. All rights reserved.Baby Center

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Posted on: 5/25/2009 6:52 AM

Posted by: Renee A

City: louisville, ky

I think this article is great. My son who is 2 loves to watch cartoons and stuff on the pc. We are teaching him 2 languages, so he is learning both languages by watching different things on the computer. I think the longest he is on it total for the day is about 2 hours and thats it. So all in all i think this article was great. With the changing world these days, a computer savy 2 year old does not sound like a bad idea!

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Posted on: 4/30/2009 7:33 PM

Posted by: Ely G

City: Madera

My 2 year old loves the computer! Especially if I have the web cam on so she can see herself and if theres music its that much better...

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Posted on: 2/12/2009 4:39 PM

Posted by: Liesl G

The fact that anyone thinks a TODDLER should be online is ridiculous! Take your kids outside and enjoy the real world.

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Posted on: 7/2/2008 8:28 AM

Posted by: sharon w

City: Miami

Thank u for this great tips because my almost 1yr old and my almost 2yr old love the computer very much,my 1yr old already knew how to turn the computer on,istn that amazing thy love it too much.thank u!

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Posted on: 10/22/2007 2:56 PM

Posted by: Shawna

City: Hawthorne

This was a great article. Very insightful!

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